Not everyone always agrees?

Hey there! When you’re working with others, it’s important to keep in mind that not everyone is always on the same page. Working alongside colleagues means understanding that they may have different perspectives on issues and opportunities, especially if you come from different tech backgrounds. These differences are actually what makes teams function well and helps everyone gel.

I recently had a chat with a developer colleague that took an unexpected turn. It all started when another DBA and I noticed a query appearing differently on our monitoring tool. What began as a simple attempt to grasp the developers’ approach quickly derailed when the explanation seemed dismissive. The DBA raised concerns about security and performance, which led to a not-so-great response from the developer. Their attitude bordered on condescension, brushing off any critique and emphasizing the focus on source control.

I have to say, I was pretty taken aback. In all my years in IT, I’ve never felt so belittled for questioning the performance implications of a development strategy related to a database server. While I get that source control is the trendy thing, prioritizing it over performance can be a trade-off.

It’s crucial for developers and DBAs to collaborate effectively. DBAs may not grasp all the ins and outs of front-end coding, just as developers might not be SQL wizards. Building good relationships makes those late nights more bearable, speeds up issue resolution, and reduces unnecessary conflicts. Plus, it prevents resentment that often leads to high turnover rates.